Parent Resource Page
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We Are Here To Support You In Your Ministry In Your Home
As a community at Faith and in faith, we support one another as we all fulfill the Baptismal promise to raise our kids and youth to be disciples of Jesus Christ.
Deuteronomy 6: 5-9:
“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates”.
FLC Parent Newsletter
August-September 2023
FAQ-Social Media Safety
What are the concerns with contemporary social media?
While social media is usually approached for mundane purposes such as connecting with friends, as with all things there are those who choose to use it for the wrong reasons and to spread things/content that we do not wish our children and teens to interact with. Social media used appropriately can be an outlet that allows us to connect, communicate, and spread information quickly. However, as with all social media it has its downsides. Content is one. Through filters, apps, and through settings we can mitigate most inappropriate content that our children can view on social media, but not all. Further, the same can be said for who our children interact with. Below are some “best practices” for your teen and their use of social media.
How do I protect my child/teen from unwanted content on social media?
Education and communication. Be informed as to how to properly setup social media filters and settings so that most content you decide is inappropriate for you teen is unavailable. That being said, there is no 100% effective means to preventing our teens from viewing unwanted content, so education is very important.
Communicate to your teen that what they take in is important. Are they God-honoring in what they view and take in?
Here is a helpful link to articles to have conversations with your kids about social media use: Focus on the Family-Parenting Social Media
How do I protect my teen from interacting with unknown people?
This is the crux of all social media use. There is no definitive way to block every unwanted interaction for our teen. So here are some helpful tools you can use.
1.) Talk to your teen about the dangers of talking to strangers ( I know this is a talk that we all heard in elementary school, but it is now much different in social media today). It is vitally important to educate our teens to only engage with people they know already in “real” life. If they are unsure, then they shouldn’t interact with them.
2.) Encourage your teen to only “friend”, “follow”, or interact with people that you already know.
3.) Have open conversations about their social media interactions, you want your teen to be encouraged to be open about social media use, not to withdraw.
4.) Set limits, have a social media time-out after a certain time of the evening or limit daily use by using the built-in settings on their device. This way they know they only have so much time on social media.
What social media does the youth ministry at Faith use?
The youth ministry at Faith Lutheran Church uses several social media platforms to communicate to parents and teens. Honestly, we would miss quite a bit if we did not use these tools. So take heart that the below listed social media platforms are used by the church, but more importantly are personally moderated by myself or someone else on staff at FLC.
-Facebook: Faith Lutheran Church Albuquerque
-Instagram: Faithabqchurch
-Discord (uses servers, there are currently three all moderated by myself with each user being personally verified by myself:
FLC Youth (Faith Lutheran Church) This is used for general FLC youth for information about events and announcements.
Ignite Worship and Leadership Team, for use by our Ignite team.
Young Adult Ministry (Faith Lutheran Church)
Thank you for reading and God bless!
In Christ,
Pastor Scott Strachan
Parent Resources
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Focus On The Family
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Focus on the Family is a global Christian ministry dedicated to helping families thrive. We provide help and resources for couples to build healthy marriages that reflect God’s design, and for parents to raise their children according to morals and values grounded in biblical principles.
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AXIS
We strive to connect parents, pastors, teachers, guidance counselors, and any caring adult to the teens in their lives through meaningful conversation. We do this by helping you engage the ever-changing world of Gen Z pop-culture in hopes of helping teens develop a Christian worldview and life-long faith in Jesus Christ.
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D6
D6 is a movement intentional about empowering parents, homes, marriages, leaders, and churches to live out the story of Deuteronomy 6. This Scripture paints a beautiful picture for the family and of God’s heart for discipleship at home. The family is God’s original small group. D6 provides resources to align the church and home to accomplish God’s design of generational discipleship.
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a national network of local crisis centers that provides free and confidential emotional support to people in suicidal crisis or emotional distress 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. We're committed to improving crisis services and advancing suicide prevention by empowering individuals, advancing professional best practices, and building awareness.
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Joni & Friends
Joni and Friends is built on Biblical truth and the foundation of Jesus Christ. Since 1979, we've been advancing disability ministry and changing the church and communities around the world. The Joni and Friends International Disability Center (IDC) serves as the administrative center for ministry programs and locations across the United States which provide outreach to thousands of families impacted by disability around the globe.
We present the Gospel of Jesus Christ through all of our programs around the world. We train, disciple, and mentor people affected by disability to exercise their gifts of leadership and service in their churches and communities. We energize the church to move from lack of awareness of people impacted by disability to including everyone into the fabric of worship, fellowship, and outreach.
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Southwest Neuropsychology & Behavioral Health
Southwest offers Neuropsychological Assessments as well as many other behavioral services.
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Formation Counseling Services
WE WARMLY WELCOME YOU TO THE RESOURCES AVAILABLE THROUGH FORMATION COUNSELING SERVICES (FCS)
FCS provides counseling services to address a wide range of life challenges faced by individuals, couples, and families across the life span.
We specialize in providing our services from a Christ-centered, Biblical frame of reference.
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Parents Reaching Out
Parents Reaching Out (PRO) provides support, training and tools for families of and youth with disabilities or complex medical needs. Our goal is to help family members and youth become their own best advocates in the areas of early childhood, education and healthcare.
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New Mexico Autism Society
What does the New Mexico Autism Society Do?
We are an affiliate of the Autism Society of America and follow their mission statement: “Improving the lives of all affected by autism.” Advocacy, education, support, services and the promotion of research form the cornerstones of ASA’s activities. We are a community of acceptance support and connection. We strive to create a community of acceptance, support and connection for those affected by autism in New Mexico!